Pathan or pathan

so the other day a friend of mine told me that the first time i found out that ushi is a pathan i was reminded of an article i had read about pathan girls. apparantley the article said that pathan girls had a tendency to run off with eligible bachelors to elope with them against their families wishes. when the girls family (the aggressively angry brother and tyrrinical father) would find out they would grab their guns and track down the poor chap the girl had run off with adn shoot him. hence making their daughter/sister a widow. just because she got married without their wishes. now well i am a pathan but i never heard such a funny and ridiculous things.my dad has given me permission to marry anyone i want but one rule applies. no runnign away with the boy . ahaha apparently mama and baba have their doubts about me runnign off with someone. i keep telling them i wont run off i swear but i get these reminders once a month atleast in no uncertain terms like agar koi ullu ka patha pasand aa gaya tau bhaag na jana , hamain batana hum shadi kara dain gay haahah. i wonder out of 4 sisters why me haahah!!!